SUPER LOVE FOR SUPER SEX/LOVE-MAP LANDMARKS: HOW SEXUAL DO YOU THINK YOUR PARENTS WERE?
Few of us really know much about the sex life of our parents, but we all have formed an opinion, a “sex theory” about it. Even if we find it impossible to believe that our parents are sexual now, we know they have been sexual. What do you remember about your parents’ sexuality as you grew up? What is your sexual theory about your parents’ sexual interaction pattern?
“I would guess maybe they did it when my father was drunk. I could hear it, I think, although I’m not sure. They would fight so much that I was too little to tell if they were fighting or actually doing it, having sex. They never hugged, never kissed. We kids were hugged all the time, but they never hugged each other. I would guess their sex was a biological release, mostly for my father.”
This husband’s report contained several “leftovers” in his own sexual life that related to his memories. He now feared what he thought was too much drinking on his wife’s part. He was so alert to his wife’s sexual needs and the danger that she, too, would accommodate him as his mother might have accommodated his father that he now had sexual problems of his own within his sexual system. He was unable to ejaculate, stating, “I think so much about what’s happening for her, I just can’t let go for me.”
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